Feeling overwhelmed

Does every new home educator feel overwhelmed when thinking about curriculum!?  The more I read from ‘seasoned” home schoolers is that they never use one set curriculum but then I don’t know how to put things together..what I need to make sure I buy, and making sure I don’t blow a bunch of money on things I don’t need. ugh!
I also worry that I am going to buy a lot of things that the kids don’t like..sigh… so many talk about their children’s “Learning Styles” and I have no idea how to go about finding out how to know what “Style” Ryan and Abby are.
I know I need to pray, but at the moment I am feeling very overwhelmed!